Author Topic: What would YOU do in this situation? (Read 12240 times)

Lady Di · « **Reply #30 on:** Oct 31, 2005, 06:09:01 PM »

how did your family get into this group home thing anyway? Sounds scarey to me! We have some kids down the street that fit that profile and I don't even like them walking by the house

Lady Di · « **Reply #31 on:** Oct 31, 2005, 06:10:11 PM »

rag

Slap that

off his head!

BLACKDOG · « **Reply #32 on:** Oct 31, 2005, 06:11:37 PM »

Quote from: MrsWillyMammoth on Oct 31, 2005, 06:10:11 PM

rag

Slap that off his head!

good idea

Cant you guys enforce a dress code anyway? Mabye one that conforms with the school's so thy cant wear something somewhere but not somewhere else?

Ramrod · « **Reply #33 on:** Oct 31, 2005, 06:12:36 PM »

let him wear the dew rag but stash some crack in there so when the teacher takes it at school he's fucked

mudguts · « **Reply #34 on:** Oct 31, 2005, 06:15:40 PM »

Quote from: bigbluewillys on Oct 31, 2005, 06:12:36 PM

fucked

I think that's a bad word

*FFC* · « **Reply #35 on:** Oct 31, 2005, 06:17:37 PM »

Quote from: BLACKDOG on Oct 31, 2005, 06:11:37 PM

good idea

Cant you guys enforce a dress code anyway? Mabye one that conforms with the school's so thy cant wear something somewhere but not somewhere else?

I"d LOVE to get rid of em, but most of our boys are black and some NEED to wear em... I can't manually take it off him that's harassment and I'd be DONE......

$I\'m Down$ All I knwo is I want OUTTA THERE!!!

Lady Di · « **Reply #36 on:** Oct 31, 2005, 06:18:29 PM »

Quote from: toecutter on Oct 31, 2005, 06:15:40 PM

I think that's a bad word

Only if you have your censor turned off. [mod mode on] But lets still keep it to a minimum. Thanks

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Quote from: BLACKDOG on Oct 31, 2005, 06:11:37 PM

good idea

Cant you guys enforce a dress code anyway? Mabye one that conforms with the school's so thy cant wear something somewhere but not somewhere else?

WOt he said! You should be enforcing the same rules they have to respect at school.

alwayzbroken · « **Reply #37 on:** Oct 31, 2005, 06:22:03 PM »

You should rat out his best friend to the fuzz then tell everybody that your little wall kicker told the cops. Then his buddies will take care of him

Lady Di · « **Reply #38 on:** Oct 31, 2005, 06:24:43 PM »

Quote from: FordFreakChik on Oct 31, 2005, 06:17:37 PM

I"d LOVE to get rid of em, but most of our boys are black and some NEED to wear em... I can't manually take it off him that's harassment and I'd be DONE...... $I\'m Down$ All I knwo is I want OUTTA THERE!!!

They NEED to wear them!!

They NEED TO WEAR THEM?

WTF (scuse my language) FOR?

SINCE WHEN?

??

Excuuuuuuuussssssssssse ME! But I believe blacks have been making their way through life for MOST of my lifetime with out FREEEEKING DO-RAGS!! WTF!!!!!! THe NEED TO WEAR THEM???

Was this a joke that I missed?

Lady Di · « **Reply #39 on:** Oct 31, 2005, 06:33:36 PM »

Oh man

leave it to freekin' left wing commie liberal tree hugging california to make do-rags a personal right! Oh that freekin' just tweeks me!

NO OFFENSE!

Lady Di · « **Reply #40 on:** Oct 31, 2005, 06:35:59 PM »

It is your property, and you place, you should have a right to demand certain criteria, just as a school does. Why the hell do you (your parents?) do this? Doesn't sound like it is very rewarding, especially not to you!

Lady Di · « **Reply #41 on:** Oct 31, 2005, 06:38:49 PM »

Willy Mammoth · « **Reply #42 on:** Oct 31, 2005, 06:45:53 PM »

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We can't report him unless he's harmed someone or himself

Beat him till he is close to death and call the cops and tell them he was having a fit of rage and was smashing his face in the wall. When you heard all the noise and came to see what was going on you found him laying in a pool of his own blood.

When they ask about your bloody hands, tell them you were working on the ford when the hood fell on them.

But seriously, if he has another out burst like that let the law take him away.

And BTW watch your back.

These "boys" you speak of are closer to man hood than you think and I wouldn't put it past any of them to attack you and putting it nicely have their way with you tag team style.

I would make a report of the incedend for future use.

Rocksurfer · « **Reply #43 on:** Oct 31, 2005, 06:52:09 PM »

Tie him to the back of the Ford and drag his ass through the mud.

*FFC* · « **Reply #44 on:** Oct 31, 2005, 06:57:09 PM »

Quote from: Willy Mammoth on Oct 31, 2005, 06:45:53 PM

And BTW watch your back.

These "boys" you speak of are closer to man hood than you think and I wouldn't put it past any of them to attack you and putting it nicely have their way with you tag team style.

I would make a report of the incedend for future use.

I would relish in this kid attacking me. I WANT him to so we can get RID of him and he can go behind bars. Is that mean?

MrsW, as far as the do-rag... they feel that they have a "right" to it because their hair is too unmanageable and they don't look nice without one, not to mention it's gang related, the kid was in all blue, and he thinks he's just "so sexy" (his words that is)

I'm not saying this pertains to ALL african americans, I've only heard it from my boys. I don't agree either. However, our hands are tied unless he physically harms somebody, himself, or gets completely out of control destroying the house further. That "little incident" was too minor to get him hauled away. However, I WOULD like to press charges... give him a taste of what's in store for him if he keeps it up

Lady Di · « **Reply #45 on:** Oct 31, 2005, 06:57:37 PM »

In FL we can shoot a person that trespasses on our personal property, and the courts will find in our favor.

that's wot ahm tawkin about!

*FFC* · « **Reply #46 on:** Oct 31, 2005, 07:00:48 PM »

Quote from: MrsWillyMammoth on Oct 31, 2005, 06:57:37 PM

In FL we can shoot a person that trespasses on our personal property, and the courts will find in our favor. that's wot ahm tawkin about!

Wow you would SO get the death penalty for that here in Cali

I need out of this state

Anyone got a room for rent?

Lady Di · « **Reply #47 on:** Oct 31, 2005, 07:03:57 PM »

Quote from: FordFreakChik on Oct 31, 2005, 06:57:09 PM

I would relish in this kid attacking me. I WANT him to so we can get RID of him and he can go behind bars. Is that mean?

MrsW, as far as the do-rag... they feel that they have a "right" to it because their hair is too unmanageable and they don't look nice without one, not to mention it's gang related, the kid was in all blue, and he thinks he's just "so sexy" (his words that is) I'm not saying this pertains to ALL african americans, I've only heard it from my boys. I don't agree either. However, our hands are tied unless he physically harms somebody, himself, or gets completely out of control destroying the house further. That "little incident" was too minor to get him hauled away. However, I WOULD like to press charges... give him a taste of what's in store for him if he keeps it up

That is exactly why do-rag's should be prohibited at your group home. Anything gang related should, by law, be prohibated. It only makes sense. Give me a break their hair is unmanagable. They have been managing their hair for the 40 something years I've been alive. Leftwing commie liberal whining tree huggin panty waste equal rights PETA ID-10-T's!

Lady Di · « **Reply #48 on:** Oct 31, 2005, 07:06:28 PM »

Quote from: FordFreakChik on Oct 31, 2005, 07:00:48 PM

Wow you would SO get the death penalty for that here in Cali

I need out of this state

Anyone got a room for rent?

We've got a motorhome. We'll keep a light on for ya. You just better not be wearing a do-rag or I'll be forced to pregnant dog slap it off your head.

Willy Mammoth · « **Reply #49 on:** Oct 31, 2005, 07:06:54 PM »

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Anyone got a room for rent?

I have a closet you can hide in if you don't mind the dust.

Why must you keep him there again? Who says you can't send him down the road? or bury him somewhere in the woods?

Lady Di · « **Reply #50 on:** Oct 31, 2005, 07:08:24 PM »

we gots lots of mud

*FFC* · « **Reply #51 on:** Oct 31, 2005, 07:09:14 PM »

Quote from: MrsWillyMammoth on Oct 31, 2005, 07:03:57 PM

That is exactly why do-rag's should be prohibited at your group home. Anything gang related should, by law, be prohibated. It only makes sense. Give me a break their hair is unmanagable. They have been managing their hair for the 40 something years I've been alive. Leftwing commie liberal whining tree huggin panty waste equal rights PETA ID-10-T's!

Yeah it's a bunch of

I'm just pissed that he destroyed my wall and there ain't nothin I can do bout it

I told my "boss" that I was DONE doin anything special for these kids, all they do is walk all over me anyway. I locked up the playstation, took away their TV and gave em early bed.... Oh, and I ain't takin em NOWHERE special

they can sit and be bored I can care less... I'm done tryin

Ok I"m done babbling....

$:-\$ \

Willy Mammoth · « **Reply #52 on:** Oct 31, 2005, 07:10:23 PM »

dig a hole and bury him with his head sticking out and fire up the bush hog. (austin powers voice) AHHH AHHHHH AHHHHHHH AHHHHHHHh (steam roller scene)

*FFC* · « **Reply #53 on:** Oct 31, 2005, 07:15:29 PM »

Quote from: MrsWillyMammoth on Oct 31, 2005, 07:06:28 PM

We've got a motorhome. We'll keep a light on for ya. You just better not be wearing a do-rag or I'll be forced to pregnant dog slap it off your head.

I'll be there in 3 days

Lady Di · « **Reply #54 on:** Oct 31, 2005, 07:19:51 PM »

Quote from: FordFreakChik on Oct 31, 2005, 07:09:14 PM

Yeah it's a bunch of

I'm just pissed that he destroyed my wall and there ain't nothin I can do bout it I told my "boss" that I was DONE doin anything special for these kids, all they do is walk all over me anyway. I locked up the playstation, took away their TV and gave em early bed.... Oh, and I ain't takin em NOWHERE special they can sit and be bored I can care less... I'm done tryin

Ok I"m done babbling.... $:-\$ \

Girl, you are too young for all this! You are not much older then these kids and these kids think they are so grown up they probably see you as their age in their eyes. How are they supposed to see you as someone, ie: an elder, to respect? As if they would anyway.

On top of that, it has been my experience that rebellious people do not appreciate good things being done for them or respect the person doing it for them (btw: I have this outlook from personal experience) So do not think that because you are going out of your way to make things nice or do special things for these guys that you willl be treated with respect in return.

Maybe by one (maybe two) but most will more then likely just turn it around on you and take advantage of you for it, or, like in this case, destroy it.

And this is true in real life as well. Look out for #1 first and foremost.

MrsCynicalMammoth steps off her soapbox

*FFC* · « **Reply #55 on:** Oct 31, 2005, 07:21:22 PM »

Quote from: Willy Mammoth on Oct 31, 2005, 07:06:54 PM

I have a closet you can hide in if you don't mind the dust.

Why must you keep him there again? Who says you can't send him down the road? or bury him somewhere in the woods?

Hhhmmmm I'd even settle for a closet about now

As for keepin him... there's nowhere else for him to go. I wish he'd just run away it'd make it a lot easier to get rid of him.. since we're not obligated to take him back once he voluntarily runs

*FFC* · « **Reply #56 on:** Oct 31, 2005, 07:23:44 PM »

Quote from: MrsWillyMammoth on Oct 31, 2005, 07:19:51 PM

Girl, you are too young for all this! You are not much older then these kids and these kids think they are so grown up they probably see you as their age in their eyes. How are they supposed to see you as someone, ie: an elder, to respect? As if they would anyway.

On top of that, it has been my experience that rebellious people do not appreciate good things being done for them or respect the person doing it for them (btw: I have this outlook from personal experience) So do not think that because you are going out of your way to make things nice or do special things for these guys that you willl be treated with respect in return.

Maybe by one (maybe two) but most will more then likely just turn it around on you and take advantage of you for it, or, like in this case, destroy it.

And this is true in real life as well. Look out for #1 first and foremost.

MrsCynicalMammoth steps off her soapbox

I don't expect respect in return... I just expect them to not throw it all back in my face, and when I tell them that it works for the weekend but then the next weekend we're right back to the old ways. I know I should go and get a life then come back in 30 years when my mom retires.... but right now I'm just gonna go back to school and get something behind me so I can start a real life.... I'd say 2 years and HOPEFULLY I'll be outta here

Lady Di · « **Reply #57 on:** Oct 31, 2005, 07:25:51 PM »

How the hell did your family get into this in the first place? And you are welcome in FL anytime, if you can take the heat. (and no rocks)

Lady Di · « **Reply #58 on:** Oct 31, 2005, 07:26:25 PM »

ANd how did you get hired?

Rocksurfer · « **Reply #59 on:** Oct 31, 2005, 07:35:22 PM »

Quote from: FordFreakChik on Oct 31, 2005, 07:21:22 PM

Hhhmmmm I'd even settle for a closet about now

As for keepin him... there's nowhere else for him to go. I wish he'd just run away it'd make it a lot easier to get rid of him.. since we're not obligated to take him back once he voluntarily runs

Maybe a little encouragement to leave, wink, wink, nudge, nudge.

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