Please don't take this the whole way, but from reading a lot of your posts, I think you need to take a week and go through a ton of threads and posts on here.  Your questions will pretty much all be answered that way, and you will likely retain the info better for having dug it up vs having people just tell you.  There's almost nothing you could ask that hasn't been covered on her in great detail in the many years this site has been up.

On top of that, you'll start to see lots of build ideas and details you probably would have never considered and may be able to put into use.