I sure hope your not at speed when you flex!!! That's pretty much the only time a steering stabilizer works....at speed to control bump steer and mask other problems.
Apparently you've never clipped a rock or stump etc while you were wheelin and had the steering wheel spun out of your hands. That's why you have a stabilizer and that's why you don't drive with your thumbs wraped around the steering wheel.
When the passenger side droops on that set up above the stabilizer is purpondicular to the drag link and doing next to nothing for you. You can do it half ass because it's easy and there's already a bracket there, or you can do it right.