I'm dealing with this right now myself.
I ordered an OEM Toyota gasket from 22re Performance. I haven't heard anything bad about Engbldr's gasket but I was too paranoid to use anything but Toyota this time around. I used whatever cheap head gasket came in my kit from the machine shop and it failed at about 34,000 miles. After a bit of discussion with a mechanic buddy and listening to what bestgen has to say I think my cause was re-using head bolts and the extreme temp fluctuation from -20F to running temp this winter and the expansion/contraction involved.
I ordered new aftermarket head bolts too
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