update: I got the shift rods to go all the way into 4 low and it didnt grind or anything so there for it is in my shfter itself, The shifter is stopping before the gear is fully in 4 low I guess the could be due to the fact that the old style shifter that I have the ball the rotates around is not as big/ (have as much movement) as the stock shifter??? I had so I gota figure out why its not putting it all the way in gear any ideas??? I might have to weld a small joint around the stub the moves the gears in and out unless you have a better idea???