Oh man I always loved that one song "If you get there before I do" but I can't remember who sings it off hand.....
EDIT: It's Collin Raye, and now that I read the lyrics I don't know if it's appropriate for both your grandmother and your brother but I always thought it was such sweet song...you'll all have to just have a listen and decide. I'll see what else I can come up with.
