I have MC 4" Betts (USA springs on mine) with 14" Bilstein. The setup works great. I am running 36" IROKS. I have taken it out a couple of times and it barely rubs the fenders in the rear. With 35's you should be fine.
What is the purpose for the upside down \ / shocks? My shocks are like this / \ and the setup works great with the Bilsteins. I have very little body roll.