maybe I'm just totally naive, but what is the difference between a promise ring and an engagement ring? what if she thinks it's one, and not the other?
A promise ring is whatever you want it to be. It can be a promise to be together forever, to get engaged when you are financially ready, pretty much anything you can think of. The reason I gave spotter one was to signify my commitment to her. I wanted her to know that Iwas always going to be there, and I wasn't going to be leaving. We are not prepared to get married yet, but I wanted her to know that It was in my intentions to marry her.
Mine is basically an engagment ring I guess, but not quite
Don't stall, did you figure it out yet?