my statement was aimed at those who are sitting on there ass not even worried about getting a job because the goverment is paying them to do nothing. ive known people like this and it pisses me off. Your mom woked her ass off to support you from what it sounds like but no where did i say any thing about people who no matter what they did to get by couldnt. i said we need to do something about those who sit on there ass and get payed. i was not meaning to be offensive towards you or anyone else that was or is in your situation.
also, yes I have a good job with good benifits, I would be able to take care of the medical bills but since she is not yet 18 her dad is still claiming her that makes the baby a dependent of him. I do not want it to be this way because I could handle it. Im am not expecting a hand out and when the baby is here my girlfriend and i will be able to cover the expenses. Also even if i did rely on mommy and daddy to bail me out in this situation it isnt costing any of you a dime.