Nice description Andrew. Thanks for taking those pictures. I did make it to my parents without any trouble. I ordered a pair of motor mounts from Napa the next day and after a full day working on them we made a copy of the factory toyota motor mount buckets that were missing on my installation and got them installed. I had to install them twice which was a total pain because there is barely enough room to get them into position. After getting them into position I noticed that the bolt holes were not lined up. Napa parts aren't what they used to be. I had to pull them back out and grind a 1/8" on each of the bolt holes. Once I did that they went right in. Sucks that I missed out but at least I have permanently solved my motor mount problem.
Glad to hear you got it fixed. I still hold the belief that you need a new cross-member or they will blow out again though.
