ok, so to the biggest tires shop in town, and they said that the wheel space will fall off no matter what kind of stud is on.
Scare tactic: telling your customers a lie in order to make them spend more money with you.
Go back and slap those douchebags, and slap yourself if you believed them! I've had 1 1/4" spacers on my 2wd toy so I could fit mustang wheels, I beat it down bumpy roads every couple weeks to get to various trinity alps trailheads and I've never, NEVER, had a lug nut or spacer nut back off! And mine are ebay specails too. A properly torqued wheel spacer will be just fine, but if you're running monster spacers and the wrong offset wheels you COULD have issues, but your biggest problem should be bump steer
