awww man brian,that really blows.I'd call the cops anyway,family or not.I'd feel differently if youd actually let him use it,but him stealing it breaks all family ties.I'd force him to get a job and pay for it.If not then we'll get together and tie him up to tree some where and have some "squeal like a pig" fun.Ok maybe not like that but you know what i mean.
I really hate that happend to ya.If you could use a 20r I've got a good one I'd let you have. It'll be ok,karma will come back.