I ended up ordering the Quadzilla commander since it will monitor 7 functions I also ordered the fule pressure sending unit for it so I will have EGT-TRANS-BOOST-FUEL PRESS. I will automatically defuel at my preset paramiters. I like the fact it is all displayed on a 4in LCD screen and will be mounted on the pillar. I just didn't want to end up with 3 guages on the pillar and one on the column. We will see how it works. I have 4.11 gears in my truck and it has 285's for now headed fro 315's.
As far as towing with mine I pulled a V-8 FJ55 on my buddies 26ft equipment trailer and the truck did well. I had the TST @ "O" though I didn't want to hurt anything with the box on till the Quadzilla gets here.
I feel your pain with time and kids. Both mine are in Softball and we are gone at least 4 nights a week with games and practices. Mine are a little more self sufficient though they are 13 and 8.
I want to drag the cruiser down to Cali next spring or summer for a couple of weeks and wheel.
I leave in the Diesel the first of Aug headed to Colorado for a class for 6 weeks. Can you say road trip:)
Thanks for the info freds40
