You dont have to Paypal me anything, thats what this forum is for, free hopefully useful info. Unfourtunately I will not be installing my springs for another week. And my truck weighs quite a bit less than your runner, however when I do I will post up some measurements and pics for you asap. A lot of people whine about how high the springs are however they never give them a change to settle at all. In fact Old Man Emu sometimes recommends the installer to drive around with about 300 lbs in the bed of the truck to assist in the spring break in.
Keep in mind you can always remove a leaf from the pack, effectively lowering the lift maybe 1" or so. Same goes for the front SAS spring packs. Its all trial and error, best thing to do is Buy em, install em, and tweak them to your liking from there.