Maybe you could do us all a favor and decipher women (call it femesemy), 'cause we would all like to know what women really mean!
OMG deucie!! THAT topic may be THE most studied in the psychology of man-woman relationships!!
It has been researched and tons of books have been written about it. I've read a good number, and I have 2 particular books by one author that are my favorite.
I have my own beliefs based upon multiple relationships, and my age of learning, mostly trial and error.
I don't believe that women are hard to figure out, and terms of a love relationship, a woman's needs are not that complex.
The success or failure of a love relationship is more responsible for the actions and behavior of the man than it is for the woman.
I believe men are self-centered and selfish.
The subject is very deep and wide!
That's just my opinion - it may be worthless.
Gnarls.