I have lost 2 shops due to fire so dont act like you are the only person that has ever had huge setbacks and lost customer cars in the damage.  You are not special whether you think you are or not.  Now your maturity level (or lack there of) is showed by you bringing my family's death into this.  That is truely uncalled for as I have not, nor will I ever bring anyones family into my getting butt hurt over what someone typed on the interweb.  You can be pissed off at me all you like I really dont care, I will still sleep well at night even though you dont like me believe it or not.