Yea been doing some research. I think I got what I want. But open to advice and suggestions.
my one piece of advice from your list would be ditch the 5" springs if you are going with 35's. try and keep your COG as low as possible and still have adequate up travel, with a 2nd gen runner with an exo it is going to feel top heavy inherently no reason to build any higher than you need to. I am also a fan of trimming and tubing the body though which some are not so that is a deciding factor. personally i think the suspension should be setup to function as optimally as possible and modify the body to fit.
but just my .02 cents